Most people don’t know the impact that our physical spaces can have on our love lives. Here are some quick and easy tips you can implement today if you’re looking to revitalize your current relationship or bring in someone new!
1. Remove any reminders of past relationships
Get rid of things like gifts, cards, pictures, etc. from past relationships. These keep the energetic cords to the past alive. It also sends a mixed message to the Universe. If you want to call in someone new, we can’t be holding on to the past.
2. Focus on pairings, especially in the bedroom
Twos hold the vibration of partnership. The Universe will always mirror back what you put out there. Consider pairing items like nightstands, lamps, candles, etc. Avoid threes to avoid any outside influence that could impact your relationship. Also, remove any solo photos of yourself as this can hold the vibration of singularity.
3. Balance the feminine and masculine elements
The key to a balanced relationship is a balanced feminine and masculine, both within and without. A good place to start is with elements, colours, and textures. The elements of fire, metal, and wood are masculine. The elements of water and earth are feminine. As an example, we can balance any feminine aspects like plants and flowers, pinks and purples, and velvets and satins, with some more masculine aspects, such as wood and metal frames, accents, or imagery.
4. Remove dead plants
Dead plants are dead energy. To ensure a fresh start in your relationship, make sure to discard any dead plants immediately, this includes roses. I am surprised at how often I come across dried roses or rose petals in someone’s space.
5. Remove the clutter in your bedroom
Things like electronics, bills, paperwork, fitness equipment, etc. are distractions that can interfere with our love lives. Store them in a more appropriate area of your home, outside the bedroom, for better success.
6. Remove any storage from under your bed
The bed is where the magic happens, so to speak. We want this area to feel warm, inviting, and clear of any energetic stagnation, interference, and distraction.
7. Keep your space clean
Energy flows through our homes in a very specific way. Unpleasant and unnecessary objects, dirt, dust and messes block this natural energy flow. Clean and declutter regularly for better results.
8. Remove broken objects
Because no one wants damaged goods in their love life, remove them from your bedroom to ensure union with a healthy partner.
9. Remove mirrors facing the bed
We are at our most vulnerable, physically and energetically, when we sleep. Mirrors are symbolic of the element of water and we don’t want too much excessive energy coming at us while we sleep.
10. Make sure there is enough room for your partner
This means clearing out enough space in your closets and drawers for them.